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Born in Atmore, United States
Wife & Mommy. I have a wonderful husband who loves me deeply and three great kids. I believe in my Creator who guides me everyday. My favorite interest are stage/theatre, music/singing, antiques and art.

Monday, February 18, 2013

A day of meanings....

      Everyday in our family holds meaning. Another day to live, love and be more like Jesus. February 18th holds a few memories for me. Some I don't share, but the memory that is the most vivid is of my Ivee. This day, 2 years ago in 2011, Ivee underwent her last brain surgery (knock on wood)! Her cancer coming back was a surprise to me and Dr. Merchant. She had no symptoms when we discovered it via MRI that January. But, here we were, in Memphis, TN as she underwent her fight to beat cancer again. Another year marks another milestone. Brittney and I were talking a few weeks ago, and she made a statement. "I remember some of my life before Ivee, but so much has happened in the last 6 years since she's been born, that I don't really remember life without her and cancer."
      You would make think that her statement made me sad, but honestly, I feel blessed. My kids are "typical" kids and they don't really know a "normal" life. BUT, they have been given a testimony. They know that life is short and there is no time for the trivial things. Like I said, they are normal kids. They want to do what is meaningful to them. Ethan is probably a little more "typical" then Brittney. He is still in "me" mode. But, Brittney has made me so proud. She has her moments, but she is a great big sister, and she takes care of Ivee like she was her own, cause she is. Ethan does do for her as well, even though he is in the "aggravation" mode when it's comes to her. I am hearing so much, "Stop it Ethan," lately. Sometimes he has aggravated her so much, he can just walk by her dancing and she says it. He looks at me and says, "I didn't do anything." That is when I remind him that if you aggravate someone enough, they think everything you do is to aggravate them! I'm sure that went in one ear and out the other.
     Time to do a little picture catch up.

This is Ivee at New Years. She was so cute wobbling around pointing her cousin Nathan's laser gun. 

Ivee just loves for me to pull out the camera and take random shots. 
Above is us in the doctors office waiting. 

Ivee has also had an obsession with putting napkins on her head for the last three years. Her Brittney has no issue in joining her in her napkin wear. I love how my 16 year old loves her baby sister!!

Emmett and I have a growing group of kids who hang at our house and church every week. Emmett and I open our home to kids 12-20 years old every Friday night for about a year now. We serve them supper, they listen to Emmett give testimony and read the Word, and then we usually play Just Dance. I enjoy these kids so much. This is a pic of a few at an Underground Mobile event. 

Brittney had her first medical procedure this past week. Her Endoscopy showed nothing that helped us with her stomach issues, but her drugs gave us all something to laugh about...including Brittney.  

Cousin Nathan's birthday lead to a good time. She loved the slide even if it was cold. Whitney and Haley enjoyed their time with their cousin as well! 

Ivee took one day with  her cousin Haley and played dress up. Here is my Merida!!!


I didn't post any Christmas pics this past year, but my kids have so much fun dancing together. 


We also don't eat out much, well, like we used to, but Ethan still dazes out when eating Mexican! :) 

Finally, here is my Ivee as school. Mom came for the party that day. Love this baby so much!!

Wednesday, February 06, 2013

Quick update

I had a not so great day last Friday. Frustrated that I didn't know what was wrong with Ivee. Already on an antibiotic for her chronic sinusitis, stomach pains had been in the picture as well and just getting worse. However, no fever was in sight. I just couldn't figure it out. She was having soft and normal stool, and was complaining about her upper hip. I went through everything. Gas, GH issues, scar tissue maybe, even considered shunt issues. Everything in her life has always been so rare or difficult. Ends up...after an x-ray on Monday, we found that she has alot of air and she has a lot of poop in there. Sorry for the mind picture, but it is what it is. She's been on an antibiotic for 10 days, which usually cause diarrhea, so once again, my child is the odd one out. She has taken the treatment well, calling it a shot in her booty. Interestingly enough, she does get shots every night...guess she just thought this was a different kind of shot. We have been doing the Mucinex and liquid suppositories 3x every 12 hours. She's still not moving any stool, but she has really released alot of gas. 

Yea, so not the post you were hoping to read...:) But...we all do it...and she needs too! So, now I ask you to pray for poop. 

Never thought I'd ask for that! 

Finally. Please say a huge prayer for our friends Aaron Bell, Kristie and Chris. Aaron got some bad news Monday. He will be beginning hospice care...I am heartbroken for this family. We have never meet, missing each other by minutes or hours many times at St. Jude, but I love and care for them the same. Aaron is 16, and the thought of really knowing all facts just makes my heart burdened for him and his parents. 
Aaron's website is in my links list. If you would like to leave a note of prayer or encouragement, please do so!! 

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Time....

     I honestly wish I could take the time to update my blog everyday, but quite honestly, I don't have it to spare! I did want to touch base with our followers/subscribers. Ivee began growth hormone therapy about 8 weeks ago. She has finally gained some weight, as my back can tell me without the use of a scale. She does have some complaints, and I am not sure they are GH related. It seems to me, and her pediatrician, that they possible are, but she has had a sinus infection and drainage, so we are going to wait for the symptoms and side effects of the antibiotic to pass before really seeing what the issues maybe. It does seem that she is learning what growing pains are. I am sure some of the complaints she has with her legs and joints are related to growing pains, something she has truly never felt before. As hard of a decision it was to start her on growth hormone therapy, I am looking forward to seeing my baby girl grow. I just pray over her every night that God will protect her body from any potential harm that the hormone therapy could impose.
     Ivee's left eye is patched everyday from 4 to 6 hours. We have been patching her for years, trying to increase the strength in her right eye (damaged from the initial tumor removal in 2006). For a while, she was gaining ground and sight, but lately, the right eye is veering off more and more. If it continues, we will be looking at a possible surgery on that eye. This is something else we pray over every night. Actually, a typical prayer night for Ivee goes something like this...

       "Dear Jesus. Help me to walk, help to eat, keep my healthy and heal my body. Help my eye, help me grow, help my tummy. I pray for Lucy, Levi, Chasity, Carlin, Eli, Haley, Whitney, Sonia, Pastor Bobby, Cathy...(and the list goes on). Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray the Lord my soul to keep. May angels watch me through the night, and wake me with the morning light. Amen" 
     
     She's never lets us forget to pray. A typical nights routine is: Brush Ivee's teeth (for 1 minute. We have a timer!) Go potty. Hook her up to the feeding extension line and give her the night time meds. Hook her up to her feeding machine (which feeds her all night long). Prep and give her the growth hormone shot. Pray. Mommy AND daddy must hug and kiss her good night. And lastly, don't forget to play the music!
     We will return to St. Jude for her MRI and other appointments at the end of February. I was just telling Emmett the other night, I can always tell when it's getting close. I feel this need, or urge to pack and travel. I guess it is similar to someone who travels for their job once a quarter. You just feel it coming. Of course, you can feel the anxiety trying to creep in as well. It's the little things that set it off. For example, Ivee had a bout of diarrhea this past weekend. Saturday night she was complaining about her neck (where the shunt line is located). I saw nothing and after a little crying spell she was fine. But there was the time, back in 2010 when she had a rare shunt line infection after a stomach virus. The conclusion had been that the virus traveled outside the intestines and traveled along the line to her neck where an infection started in. I am SO very thankful that she is here with us, but please...NEVER think cause the cancer is gone that the worrying or living with the consequences of the cancer is easy. Nothing about it is easy. I just feel incredibly blessed! It could be so much worse than it is. She is a happy little girl, who just lives a not so typical little girl life. Honestly, she doesn't know any different, and sometimes, that makes me sad for her.
     Okay, I'm pulling myself away from the pity party! Keep praying my friends! I am so thankful for you. And if you would, please add the following to your prayers as well.

Our friends, Sheila and Jesse. Their husband/dad, Danny, passed away Christmas Eve. It is still a very hard road, and Jesse has health/disabilities (much like Ivee). Danny was a huge help, and now it is just Sheila. And they miss him terribly!
Our pastor, Bobby. He is going through chemo and needs the prayers of God's people for healing!
Carlin, still going strong, but has hard days.
Aaron, going through chemo for new tumor growth. Surgery not an option and radiation has been maxed out.
John, just had surgery to remove a returned brain tumor.
Emmett, yes, Ivee's daddy is having problems with his arm. Pain from elbow to hand. Seeing the doctor Friday.

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Here's a tale you'll want to hear....

Six years ago, in a home so unsuspecting, the lives of five family members would be changed... forever. December 15th, the Foley babies, after their Christmas Concert from church, posed patiently as their mother held her camera. Daddy, Emmett, was in Texas and mom, Hope, thought she would surprise him with some pictures of his babies in front of their tree. He had been gone for about a week and would be gone for a little longer, to be home just in time for Christmas. Ivee, the youngest of the children, only 7 months old, had not been acting so happy lately, crying often but wanting to be her happy, cheerful self. On this night, she was patient, but quickly decided she wanted nothing to do with being happy in the pictures for daddy. As the night progressed into the next day, Brittney, the oldest child, became sick. She continued to deal with vomiting and nausea all through that Sunday, December 17th, which happened to be Ethan's 7th birthday. Mom was very tired, but decided that she would take Brittney to the doctor Monday while sending Ethan off to school. 
Hope loaded her daughters into the van that Monday afternoon, and set off to the doctors office, hoping that Brittney could find relief from her stomach pains and sickness. Being that it was only 7 days until Christmas day, the mother decided to stop at a store just down the street from the doctors office to pick up a couple of items. Leaving Brittney to rest in the van for a few minutes, Hope took Ivee stilled strapped into her infant seat inside the store, placing Ivee on the grocery cart securely, as so many parents do. Finding the few stocking stuffers that she needed, Hope left the store. As she exited the doors, she reached to throw something in the garbage can at the end of the cart. As the she turned around to look at her baby, she saw the moment that the car-seat hit the concrete ground with a loud bang, face down....the way the car-seat fell made no logical sense. Hope, completely overcome with grief and fear, pulled the car-seat over to see that Ivee was awake but dazed and a large knot on her forehead. She rushed her children to the doctors office down the street, the same place she was taking Brittney for relief that day. The doctor there said Ivee was responsive, but since she was wanting to sleep, she might possibly have a concussion, a CT scan would confirm this. So, from there, Hope rushed Ivee to the local hospital 30 minutes away, the entire time Brittney telling her mother that it was going to be okay. 
With Hope's husband being hours away, Hope called a friend, who immediately began finding people to come to her rescue to get Brittney and be by her side, and then she called her husband. Emmett, after weighing what had happened, told his boss that he needed to leave Texas and come home immediately...his family, his daughter, his wife needed him. 
As Hope stood by Ivee's side, the nurse positioned her body and her head on the CT table, no need to strap her down, for Ivee was sleeping away. Hope, continually praying that the fall, which was now permanently etched, no scarred onto her brain, would not have hurt her baby...that it was just a concussion. The nurse exited the room to prepare the machine for the scan. As Hope stood there looking at Ivee's little body a peace and calm came over her. Reaching down to take Ivee's hand, Hope heard a still, small voice speak straight to her heart..."It is okay. I am with you. Ivee will not be harmed from this fall...but there is something that I need for the doctors to see." It was then and there, Hope knew. The weeks of crying with no relief, the head tilting, the fact that her daughter didn't seem to be like her other kids at the same age...something was wrong with her little girl. The nurse asked her to step inside the room with her while the scan took place. Hope stood there looking through the window as the CT machine came to life, and then looking down at the computer screen, Hope saw what her heart already knew...a large white spot where gray should be appeared as the scan went from the top of Ivee's head to her neck and spine.
Picking up her baby and leaving the room, Hope held Ivee close, knowing that life had just changed, but not knowing just what that would mean. The doctors told her that an MRI would be needed in hopes of getting a clear answer, but all she could think is, “How am I going to tell Emmett? What do I say? What does all this mean?” Even after the MRI, sitting in the emergency room surrounded by friends, Hope still felt distant, stunned and alone, desperately wishing that her husband could teleport straight into the room from Texas, but knowing she would have to wait for him to drive the long hours home. 


The hard separation started when Hope had to let her baby go with the pediatric nurses in the ambulance for a transfer to the local children’s hospital, where she would be admitted to the PICU. Hope's friends drove her the 40 minutes from one hospital to the other, the entire time, Hope's heart hurting and searching, and only finding some relief when she was joined again with her baby in her new room in the ICU unit of the children's hospital. 

After a long day of visitors in and out, Emmett stepped out of the elevator late that night into the 5th floor waiting area. After their long embrace, Hope lead Emmett to their daughter's small hospital room, to their beautiful baby girl hooked up to monitors and machines, the only signs of a fall being a nice bruise over her right eyebrow. She was very happy to see her father, and he her, but now looking into her little chubby face brought different feelings than joy. It brought with it a fear and despair. The doctors were still unsure what the spot on Ivee's MRI meant. It didn't show signs of any one particular diagnosis. The neurosurgeon wouldn't know what he was dealing with until he got inside that beautiful little head. Emmett, Hope and family enjoyed her company that Tuesday and said their prayers over her. Wednesday, December 20th, lead the family to the halls of the surgery ward on the bottom floor. The doctor reassured them that he would take care with there child. They kissed their baby good-bye and sat in the waiting room. This waiting room, shared by the surgery department and the maternity ward, was full of people, all with very different emotions. Many were there waiting on the joyous news of babies being born. Celebrating the great day when a new life would come into the world. Emmett, Hope and family sat there praying for news of something simple, that the doctor would come in saying all was well, she did fine and she would be the same child they knew before. Five hours later, as the doctor took the parents into a room to themselves, they saw it on the doctors face. Holding hands their hearts broke when they heard the words...cancer. 
That was it. That moment. The moment that car-seat hit the ground outside a store in Robertsdale, AL on Monday, December 18th...that was the moment. The moment that their lives, their ideas of how precious life truly was changed forever.  It only takes a moment for your world to come tumbling down, spiraling to a place where no matter what you do, you have no control over this. However, it is also the moment that life and faith and family took on new meaning. The moment became their...day, our day of learning to trust and pray and plead and grow and learn. 
It became G.I.F.T day! 
The day that we, the Foleys learned that God is the healer, sustainer, prince of peace, savior, delieverer. 
He is in control and he is the faithful one when our faith is wavering. Not that we didn't know he was all these things before, for I had been taught this in church my entire life...
...but now we believed it! Now we had to live it! Now we counted on it! 
                               God
                               Is
                              Faithful and
                             True! 
He is a Gift. He came as a Gift. He died as a Gift! And he rose as a Gift!
Happy G.I.F.T day to you all and may Jesus be the Gift that you all come to know and receive! 
____________________________________


Ivee after her first surgery 12/20/2006



A month after surgery, just beginning chemo. 
Daddy and Ivee in the hospital during chemo treatments 3/2007
Ivee's 1st birthday in the hospital 5/8/2007

Ivee at St. Jude with her daddy while he visited us there while she underwent radiation to the brain 7/2007
Living at home again and her hair growing in. Loving her sister! 9/2006
Ivee and Brittney's hair growing back. Brittney lost her hair during Ivee's treatments as well. Cancer affects the whole family! 
Ivee on her first anniversary of G.I.F.T. day 2007!!!!



Ivee in 2008! Man, at the hair! Loving Grandpa, watching baseball, and visiting the Memphis Zoo. 

Ivee has her 9th surgery. This time to remove a cyst and scar tissue that formed in her brain. 09/11/2008

After being released from Memphis from scar tissue surgery, Ivee develops Meningitis, and has to have two more surgeries to have a shunt placed in her head. 09/21/2008-10/2/2008

Ivee goes ALL of 2009 without on single surgery or issue needing hospitalization! 


Ivee has a rare shunt line infection and has to have her shunt replaced. So use to hospitals, she and I always found ways to entertain ourselves and others. 2/2010
And we find out Ivee is very allergic to one of her antibiotics...after mommy has to get ugly with the doctors! 

We find out that Ivee has hip displasia...totally NOT related to the cancer and brain surgeries. She undergoes hip surgery, her 14th surgery over all, and stays in a full body cast for 6 weeks. 9/23/2010
MRI reveals Ivee's cancer has returned 01/24/2011
Ivee undergoes her 15th surgery to remove cancer from her brain again 02/18/2011

A week after brain surgery. 


Thursday, December 13, 2012

Way late....

Yes, I am sorry I dropped the ball. Man, has life been busy around here.
Ivee's scans were clear and stable! She's doing well.
She began growth hormone therapy a week ago, and takes the shots like a champ!
She is sick at this time, and we are praying that she gets over it soon!
I promise to actually do a real post soon. G.I.F.T. Day is coming. I will make myself take the time to mark this anniversary in our lives!!! So, don't forget to check back at the end of next week!
Thank you for checking in and God bless!

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Just four more...

We are sitting in our room at the Ronald McDonald House after a long day at the hospital. Ivee had her MRI today, and we will patiently wait until 8:30 am tomorrow morning when we see her favorite Doctor ever to hear the results. This time is stressful. Last night I laid in bed thinking about my Give Thanks fundraiser for St. Jude and thought, "my goal won't even cover Ivee's MRI and sedation for tomorrow. We have to do more." So I have four days to meet my new goal of $2,000. I would be so thankful for help to reach this! Just click here to help me. http://fundraising.stjude.org/site/TR/GiveThanksWalk/GTW?team_id=29674&pg=team&fr_id=3750

I will update when we have results. Thank you for your help and keep praying!

Thursday, November 08, 2012

Blog-Blah.....

I was looking at my blog as I was ready to post and thought...how BLAH is this page!! Oh well, I just don't have the hours to put into it to make it pretty like so many others I've seen. Can't have it all, can I now!

I sent my baby off to school today after being out for three days (sick for 5). She is still not well. She has no fever, but the cough, phlegm, and gagging is still rampant! The saliva is so thick too. I wonder if somehow radiation or chemo has not affected her saliva glands? My husbands father had throat cancer and once he went through treatment, he has difficulty producing saliva. I know Ivee's was to the back of the head, but chemo does affect the entire body (some areas more than others). I wonder if she has been affected in this way. I also believe that chronic sinusitis is a big monster for her!

Well, I sent her off to school wearing a medical mask, like they have to do when getting chemo and roaming the halls of the hospital. She doesn't like it, but didn't give me one fit about wearing it. With the way she sounds right now, I am still unsure if they will want to sedate her on Tuesday for her MRI. I have to keep her on the road to recovery, and we all know how sanitary elementary school kids are! Right! She was dying to go back to school, so I told her yesterday she could go if she wore the mask to keep her healthy. She agreed! I texted her aid to ask how she was. Said she isn't talking but she says she's okay. She maybe a bit embarrassed by it, I know is annoyed by the mask, but she is such a trooper. She is the strongest, bravest person I know. She is the sweetest baby too. She knew I felt kinda lousy this week too, but nothing compared to her. We were laying in bed yesterday, and she had a coughing/gagging spell. After it was over, she turned to me, put her hand on my face and said, "You okay momma? You feel better?" She can melt and break my heart all at one time!

Keep praying my friends! She still needs to get well and we have 4 days for that to happen! And at the same time, continue those prayers for her cancer to be gone and her MRI to be clean and clear! God bless you all!

Tuesday, November 06, 2012

Give thanks and Needed Prayers

Going to share a few pictures, and then get to the meat of this posting! 
Brittney and her date to homecoming. She's getting so big...and now...no braces. 

 Ivee had a field trip to the Corn Maze. So much fun!! 
 My adorable baby girl looks so cute next to this pumpkin! 
And She LOVES her teacher, Mrs. Jones! 

Friday night, November 2nd we had the privilage to meet my favorite author...EVER! He came to a small town near us. I couldn't believe it. As he was talking, Ivee whipped out my big camera and started snapping. She caught this one and I thought, "Man...that's a pretty good shot!" 
So, yep, this is us with...

!!!!!!!!!!TED DEKKER!!!!!!!!!!!

Best Day EVER!!! In the words of my 16 year old, Brittney! 

And Ted fit right in with us. Once Ange, my friend  snapped the pic he said, "I probably look like a dork in that one!" I said, "Then you fit right in with us!" 

On to the other important stuff...

We could use great prayers here in the Foley home. Ivee has been sick since Saturday. She has severe congestion and has had fever on and off. Right now, she is in the bed sleeping. She is tired of coughing and gagging on thick saliva. The doctor and I have decided to medicate her based on chronic sinusitis. It is my belief that Ivee has this often due to all the damage her nasal and sinus passages had while we had to suction her with a catheter during chemo, when both vocal cords were not working and the left was trying to recover. Something that happened sooo long ago now, is still causing her pain and discomfort. It maybe that one day she will require adenoid or tonsil surgery or even sinus surgery. That is definitely not something we are going to pursue right now. BUT...She has her MRI next week, and we really need her well...with or without the MRI coming she needs to be healed of this. She is a sick little girl. She's been on antibiotics now for over 24 hours, and there has been little improvement,  but as many of your know, when she has congestion it is thick and her paralyzed vocal cord makes it very hard for her to clear these secretions. She's also having difficulty breathing when the secretions are covering her cords. Please, lift her up in prayer. Please, cover her MRI results in prayer. Pray for a cancer free scan...pray that the cyst/edema in her head is better...pray for the pressure on the brain stem...pray for the inflammation on her spinal cord. Pray for safe travels to Memphis and home! 

And finally...pray about still giving to my Team Ivee Give Thanks. Walk. I am so close to my goal!!! I need to reach it by November 16th. Just click HERE to give!!! Thank you SO much for your prayers!!!

Monday, October 22, 2012

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Sometimes it seems to me that time passes so quickly, and then somedays, it just goes to slowly! 
Today feels quite long. It began with a long visit for me to the dentist for a lovely...root canal! I honestly would just pull teeth if I had any to spare! Unfortunately, I inherited bad teeth. I have always taken great care with my teeth, and for some reason, I was just dealt the hand of rotten teeth! The average mouth has 32 teeth, and thanks to 3 successful root canals (1 or 4 went terribly wrong) and a total of 6 crowns, I am still the possessor of 20 teeth! Pathetic. I just know dentures are in my future, but I am determined to make it to my 60's with what I've got...and I've still got 20+ years to make that happen!!   

Okay enough of tooth talk! (Even though, I have forgotten to mention Ivee lost another tooth a week ago. That is a total of 3 tooth fairy visits. This time, she lost it while taste testing a cracker while we were out eating. It hurt and scared her at 1st, but once she saw it and heard the words tooth-fairy, and she was all smiles!) 

There is something I want to share with you guys, something I  normally don't talk about. You all know that Ivee has many problems due to surgery and treatment. It has been 17 months since Ivee's last radiation treatment. Since that time, we have continued to patch her left eye to increase her right eyes strength. The right eye was affected by the initial brain surgery in 2006, and the brain shut it off to relieve her double vision. We have been patching for years and that eye does work again. It had regained great vision, and we took a break, but after the 2nd radiation treatment, the eye became worse again. Some days, Ivee looks like this...
She had never seen this until the other night, when she looked in her mirror across from her bed, and said, "What is wrong with my eye? Why is it looking over there?" 
Broke my heart to hear her ask me this. Lately she ask questions about everything. Most days living with a 6 year old Ivee feels more like living with a 3 year old Ivee. She is so small, and just now catching up to the milestones she never met! I feel like I had an infant/toddler for 3 years. 
So, I am asking that you join me in praying for Ivee's eye along with praying for her up coming scans in November! 
Here are a few other pics to share...

Ivee and Mommy on Ivee's field trip to the Corn Maze!!
Ivee at Hippotherapy. She is learning to kneel on the horse now! Getting strong! 


The other day, Ivee was sitting at the table doing her homework. I couldn't help taking a picture. She is my miracle and growing into my big girl everyday! 

Finally, I don't usually ask this, but could you please lift me up in prayer for a personal health problem? I have been having some problems lately, and just ask that you would pray that God take the issues completely away and heal me! God bless you friends!! We love you all! 

Monday, October 15, 2012

Realization!!!....

I just realized that I haven't shared any pictures of Ivee on here since getting her glasses! She so stinking cute in them, that I have to share!!!
The day she got her glasses! Both of my beautiful, nerdy girls!! I love them so...and Ethan too...mostly! 

The day she was the Kindergarten class Superstar and got a reward! 




She is still ever my sweet baby girl.
She's been struggling lately with congestion and with her problems swallowing, we ask that you would pray for her in this. Every time I seem to get her "cleared up" it doesn't last long and she has difficulty with this drainage and congestion again and again. It interferes with her ability to breathe good breaths and it also interferes with our trying to get her to eat...or taste test, since that's really what we are trying to get her to do. 

On a good note. Hippotherapy (horse therapy) is really helping Ivee with her stability, strength and walking. Her aid at school, Ms. Cheryl, says she doesn't want any help and tries to walk around the room independently. (Which scares her aid to death, but she's like a grandma to her!) She did have a not so good fall last week and hit her head on the playground. I did go up there to make sure all was well, I was relieved to find no knots on the head, her shunt and all signs of injury were fine. I reminded Cheryl and a few others, as Ivee is learning to walk, as with any baby/crawler learns, she will fall! But, poor Ms. Cheryl was shook up the rest of the day and just wanted to carry her, but Ivee wouldn't let that happen. She said she was fine and to let her walk! 
God is still healing my baby girl. Emmett and I are praying that by this time next year she will be able to climb steps unassisted, not need that walker or wheelchair, and she will run to see her mommy after school instead of wobbly along holding Cheryl's hand! 

As for Brittney and Ethan...Britt is 16 now, and Junior, and we are awaiting the arrival of Emmett's new vehicle soon so that Britt can have dad's car. She is doing well driving, independently for 2 1/2 months now, and I enjoy the freedom of not having to run all the errands. She is doing well in school, and has an easy load this semester. 

Ethan had a rough start, but is thriving in the world of MIDDLE SCHOOL as a 7th grader! He has honor roll right now, and has been accepted into an after school program for gifted artist that is offered to 8th graders. The art teacher was told of Ethan's talents by some other teachers that had seen his drawing book and told her about him. She has him working on his first painting that she will have him enter into a contest here in Alabama! 

Emmett and I began a new journey this past Sunday. After a long search and waiting on the Lord, I have accepted the role of Worship Minister at a new church start here in our city. I have many years experience leading worship, but God has grown my abilities over the last 4 years by stretching me out of my comfort zone! Emmett, who has accepted a shared role as Youth Minister, and I are excited to see what is going to happen in the life our new church body here. 
Emmett also received a promotion at his job, and I am very proud of him and how far he has come and brought our family from the very beginning of our journey with Ivee. It has not been an easy road, but the Lord has shown his love and grace to us along the way. I still have to rely on him daily. He is the source of my strength, and we know that he is the provider, comforter and healer for this family! 

Thank you, readers, friends and family for the love and support you give to us.
Keep praying and BELIEVING in a miracle in my Ivee's life!!!!

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Hey St. Jude...

Watch this video "HeyStJude" and then pray about giving to Team Ivee for the Give Thanks. Walk 
in honor of my baby, Ivee! 


Team Ivee! 

This Team gives thanks for the work that St. Jude has done in the life of Ivee! Ivee was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive brain tumor called an Ependymoma at the age of 7 months. She has fought the battle for her life twice, first in 2006 and for a second time in 2011. She has undergone 15 total surgeries (7 of those brain surgeries), 6 months of chemotherapy, and 63 total doses of radiation to the brain. She is a living example of the hope and miracle that is offered through St. Jude Children's Hospital. St. Jude doesn't just care about finding cures, but in giving the most effective and less damaging treatment they can to try to help Ivee and other children live a normal life. After all she has fought through, Ivee still suffers the damage of her disease and surgeries, but your help in supporting St. Jude, they are still looking for ways to help her and to try to keep this from happening to children in the future!
That's why we are participating in the St. Jude Give thanks. Walk. on Saturday, November 17, and why we need your support to help me reach my fundraising goal.



Monday, September 10, 2012

WORDS.....

Take a moment and watch this video, then read my post below it...Thanks!


Words...My friend Brian emailed me the link to this video this morning. Before I even read what the lady had rewritten on the sign I began to cry. Then once I read, "It's a beautiful day, and I can't see it" my heart burst with grief. My mind immediately went to the thoughts of Justin, Brandon, Myah, Anderson, Johnny, Avery Ann, Christian, Erin, Dorian, Fredrick, and all the other children to the left of this post and the countless others I have meet in person or online. It's a beautiful day here in on earth. Their parents feel the coolness and breeze of the day, but their hearts are so heavy, they can't enjoy it. 

I don't know how this video may have moved your heart today...perhaps it didn't affect you at all. I would  encourage you to look around you today, to find someone with a need, and to let God help you to meet it! I would ask you to pray about sponsoring me in the Give Thanks Walk (mentioned in my previous post). Words...they are powerful!   But ACTIONS....they speak the loudest!!!


Thursday, September 06, 2012

September...Childhood Cancer Awareness Month

Team Ivee. St. Jude Give Thanks. Walk.  <--Click for my donation page.

Above is a link to my St. Jude Give Thanks. Walk. fundraising page. My goal this year is $1,000.00. I am looking for supporters to donate towards our goal and I am looking for Team mates.

This years walk is in Spanish Fort, AL on November 17th. I am praying that Ivee and I will be able to attend, but that is the week she is scheduled for multiple test at St. Jude in Memphis.

I am praying that this years support supersedes last years!!!!

I owe Ivee's life to God and the nurses, doctors and researchers at St. Jude. She isn't out of the woods, especially knowing she has fought this monster twice, but with your help, we can hopefully find a cure for all childhood cancers, and financially help families devastated  by this disease!

Please, carefully pray about giving and the amount that your should give.

God bless you all!!!

The Foley family!!!!